Another Set of Whys

I am doing this soul cleansing tag... Yay! Thanks MM for the brilliant tag

1. Why is it ok for you to buy watches, laptops, cars, mobiles any number of times but not ok for me to desire a beautiful house?
2. Why is it ok for you to want to honour a promise to a third person at the cost of your family's liking but not ok for me to demand that my husband honours his promise to me?
3. Why is it ok for you to like your mother's food but not ok for my sons to prefer their mother's food?
4. Why is it ok for you to relax on your weekend but not ok for me to want some space during my weekend?
5. Why is it ok for you to waste food by making excess and serving to the neighbours and not ok for me to make just right quantities?
6. Why is it ok for you to reach office after 10 but not ok for me to reach just 5 minutes after you?
7. Why is it ok for you to get a car as your bonus but not ok for me to demand a better cash bonus?
8. Why is it ok for you to do numerous foreign tours but not ok for me to do a local trip to Delhi (my shopping paradise! ha) ?
9. Why is it ok for you to diss North Indians and not ok for me to call South Indians as Madrasi?
10. Why is it ok for you to park your car in the wrong place, blocking the play area but not ok for me to park the car in the wrong place not disturbing anybody?
11. Why is it ok for you to convert your balcony into an additional room causing a violation but not ok for me to make a grill blocking a small area not used by anyone but me?
12. Why is it ok for you to grow a tree in your garden space causing disturbance to the upper floors, but not ok for me to let a few weeds grow in my garden?
13. Why is it ok for you to browse and chat on the net but not ok for me to blog?
14. Why is it ok for you to maintain a messy home but not ok for me to not want to sweep if the maid does not turn up for a day or even otherwise?
15. Why is it ok for you to dye your hair an ugly shade of black but not ok for me to get my hair cut in a different style?
16. Why is it ok for you to dash the car but not ok for me to be a lousy driver?
17. Why is it ok for you to not call my parents anytime but not ok for me to not call your parents when I am travelling? (person- some)
18. Why is it ok for you to never call my parents but not ok for me to not call your parents when I am travelling to your city? (persons- rest)
19. Why is it ok for you to skip quite a few rituals from your side but not ok for me to skip the few rituals that involves "giving money or taking money from all and sundry" in my wedding?
20. Why is it ok for you to not want to spend money because you are the boy's side but not ok for me to control the expenses because I am on the girl's side?
21. Why is it ok for you to crib about the fact that photographs of a few rituals were not taken but not ok for me to crib that calling the photographer again would have meant that I incur the extra charges?
22. Why is it ok for you to not celebrate some festivals celebrated all over the country but not ok for me to say that I don't believe in some of your rituals?
23. Why is it ok for you to not cut hair on Fridays but not ok for me to not cut hair on Saturdays?
24. Why is it ok for you to comment on my not wearing the signs of marriage but not ok for me to comment on the dynamics of your marriage?
25. Why is it ok for you to follow the customs prevailing in your maternal home in your husband's house but not ok for me to not want to give up my customs after marriage?
26. Why is it ok for you to comment on how I do not live with my ILs living in the same city but not ok for me to comment on how you live in a different country altogether and make a flying visit only once a year?
27. Why is it ok for you to comment on everyone's weight but not ok for me to point fingers at the eating habits of the members of your family?
28. Why is it crystal clear to you why other DILs are having problems with her ILs but completely hazy when it comes to your own family (this is for all men!!)?
29. Why are you so understanding about other's problems but clueless when it comes to your own?
30. Why are you so good in HR & PR in your workplace and mess up horribly in your personal life?
31. Why is it ok for you to comment on my over usage of diapers and harming the environment but not ok for me to comment on the water wastage and detergent pollution that your dirty nappies cause? To each their own right! Even though I have been a cloth diapering Mamma!
32. Why is it ok for you to comment on my naughty children in the train/ aircraft but not ok for me to object if you mess up the compartment with your snacks?
33. Why is it ok for you to joke on the number of times my kids cry but not ok for me to object when your grown up kids damage a parked car?