When couples fight- just ensure you stay away. Refrain from comments or intervention. Do not support and do not add fuel to the fire. They will kiss and make up real quick. You will end up as the villain in the whole story.
Yeah , I keep the "dude, you are such an MCP" or " You really gotta stop nagging, girl" to myself. The in-laws eventually stop, make up and continue watching the soap. So I think you're right !!
What's the protocol for icy cold shouldering "fights" ? Should everyone assume a sunny disposition and go about business as usual ? Or participate enthusiastically by throwing icy dagger looks at each other ?
minka- depends on whose side u r!!! well i still maintain- if it is a couple fight- stay away... u will lose if u participate & u will not gain anything if u don't go off to a movie - rid yourself from the scene
LOl. Enlightening. Some more people need to know. Also, when you are the "couple", you should take care not to make your arguments public, 'cause even after you kiss and make up- people won't let you forget that you had your differences. And yeah, I guess I will try my best never, never to fight in front of my kids. ( when I have them that is )
so true.. have seen this many times with my parents.. have an irritating aunt who used to take my mom/dad's side and ended up fueling the fight and irritating the "unsupported" spouse.. you have trigerred a thought proces.. maybe i will do a post on ti..
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Yeah , I keep the "dude, you are such an MCP" or " You really gotta stop nagging, girl" to myself. The in-laws eventually stop, make up and continue watching the soap. So I think you're right !!
What's the protocol for icy cold shouldering "fights" ? Should everyone assume a sunny disposition and go about business as usual ? Or participate enthusiastically by throwing icy dagger looks at each other ?
minka- depends on whose side u r!!! well i still maintain- if it is a couple fight- stay away... u will lose if u participate & u will not gain anything if u don't
go off to a movie - rid yourself from the scene
totaly agree!!
me dont like anyone bothering in my fights! so i would love to return the favour and give gyaan ONLY when asked for! :)
cheers!
abha
Hear Hear. I should show this to my mom :)
LOl. Enlightening. Some more people need to know. Also, when you are the "couple", you should take care not to make your arguments public, 'cause even after you kiss and make up- people won't let you forget that you had your differences. And yeah, I guess I will try my best never, never to fight in front of my kids. ( when I have them that is )
True!
so true.. have seen this many times with my parents.. have an irritating aunt who used to take my mom/dad's side and ended up fueling the fight and irritating the "unsupported" spouse..
you have trigerred a thought proces.. maybe i will do a post on ti..
was this a self realization ??
Very true...Dont give advice. If they are disturbing you, just kill them..;)
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